Happy Autism Awareness Month!
Every year around this time I get the joy of seeing many of my friends and family sharing their enthusiasm and interest in disability advocacy and it warms my heart and makes it grow at least 10 times. With that said, there are some things I want people to keep in mind when they want to share their support for those on the autism spectrum.
- Keep in mind person-first language. Someone is a boy/girl with a disability, or a boy/girl with autism, or a boy/girl who is on the autism spectrum. It is not okay to refer to someone as “autistic” unless they say it is okay to do so. The reason behind this: a person is not his label. He is a person, first.
- Be aware of the organizations you are promoting, and their main messages. There are many organizations who have done wonders in increasing awareness about autism but some of the most well-known autism organizations do not sit well with people who actually have autism. The reason behind this: there are major organizations that have an autism focus, that focus on researching to find a cure for autism. To my students, clients, friends, and family on the spectrum this comes across like an insult. One of my prior counseling clients put it best when he said, “saying I need a cure is saying there is something wrong with me. I’m not like everyone else, but just because I’m different doesn’t mean being me is wrong.”
- Showing your support on-line and through social media is awesome. Including people with autism in your day-to-day life is even better. Take steps to make your clubs, businesses, organizations, parties, and events inclusive to people with disabilities. If you need help with this, shoot me an email!
- Keep an open mind. People present any difference or disability in a unique way. For some, you might be very surprised to learn they have a disability. For others, their disability may be more apparent. It doesn’t mean they deserve more/less support or more/less understanding. Autism (like most differences and disabilities) operates on a spectrum and is unique to the individual. There is no right or wrong way to present your differences, but there are ways to help someone with a disability to acclimate to a new job, school, or social group. There are also simple ways to show patience throughout your daily life with strangers because as the old saying goes: “you never know what someone may be going through.”
- Children with disabilities grow up to become adults with disabilities. There are so many wonderful resources for people with autism and other disabilities, and I encourage you to look into great programs for adults who are on the autism spectrum. In Michigan I have worked with the BOND Program at Michigan State University, ASPPIRE, and other amazing transition and vocational programs for adults who have autism. There is such a need for more support of these programs. People with autism can be capable, hard-working individuals that light up their communities and make contributions socially and vocationally. Show your support for continued growth and opportunity by contributing to these programs!
With all that said, I am eternally grateful for the disability awareness taking place this month and as always commit to spreading awareness year round. Light it up blue!
Thanks for caring and sharing 😊
Ashley Jacobson, MA, CRC